If you have been dumped by your girlfriend you must be really hurting right now and the only thing on your mind is how to find a way get her back again. But before you go rushing in and doing anything drastic you need to sit down and work out just how you are going to get your girl back. If you make the wrong moves you could easily screw things up and ruin any chances you had of getting your girlfriend back.
Do You Really Love Her?
The first thing you need to do to ask yourself if you really love her? This may seem an odd question but you should think about it very carefully. Sometimes we just think we love someone because we are so used to them. They feel comfortable and familiar. Even if you are arguing all the time and at odds with each other, you get so used to this way of life that you simply accept things as they are.
Changes can be hard to make but if you decide that you don’t love your girlfriend after all, then the break up was really for the best.
After a while when your girlfriend has been given enough space and has time to calm down she may contact you again or you may run into her when you are out. Either way, don’t be pushy or try to force things with her. Just be friendly but aloof and let her do all the running. Show her just how mature and strong you have become.
These are just the first steps you should take after you have been dumped by your girlfriend. If you follow my advice you will definitely be on the right track to getting your girlfriend back.